The Seedy thriller chronicles... abstract continuum

this is a work in progress...

 the cry terrified the girl right to the inner lining of her pancreas, with the juices of fear churning inside her, she flew through the barn; her left brain wonderring what beasts would seek her now.... and to think she'd just escaped the mad cow.... well fat aunt aggie always did say life is screwy and unfair! and here she was...a running example of it".....

"so she ran....ran till her toes bled...but the sound just followed her relentless ; hungry as a leech on its first leg. frantic thoughts blinked past her consciousness...escape ...escape...must find escape...is there a hatch open?..nope...'god help me.....' crap...she remembered...she was an atheist.

well its never too late she thought...'so how exactly might an atheist frame a first time prayer?might be best to throw in an apology or something...' its funny how easy it is to be distracted while running for your life, suddenly the barn began to shudder and shake....shrieking tremors reverberated against her eardrums..the wall next to her flew apart..and there he was! glimmering through the raining splinters!

so...where was i?....ahhh..." so there he was! her knight in shining bull dozer!..lazy eye pete!...good thing she chose to not run him over last week....but how did he know she'd need rescuing? never mind she thought , escape first ask questions later and threw herself towards her savior...but that wasnt the end of it....oh no...

AMBIVALENCE

Helplessly I watched her claw her way back into the little world I'd grown to call my own ....

It was foolish of me to think I could ever uproot her, I thought she'd fade like leaves do in the fall ... But it was a lie, the delusion of a weed you think you've killed that always finds its way back , ever so quietly and insidiously . Sinking its roots into everything you've begun to call your own.

I fought hard.... With love, with anger, plotted , swore vengeance....

Till one day .... I woke up... And .... Nothing.... I was tired....

Just so tired and spent ... And I stayed tired .....and then just like that ... Something inside me just died .

At first I wondered ... Is this the first of my heartbreak? Would it now crumble away bit by bit? I waited for the grief to hit me...

Nothing... And then I realized what had happened, its as If  a piece of my heart had just sealed it self shut, dead, forgotten, never to be touched again, the rest of me ? Lived on....

Day by day I began locking away my demons like you hide a bad memory,

no more voices in my head.... Each clamoring to be heard above the other... No more endless monologues of things I'd say .... Or should've said .... No more sudden stabbing pain.... And finally I'd purged them all.... The lies , the hurt, the defeat, the resignation. And I felt.... Relieved... Thankful to not care anymore.

But they sneak in sometimes.... Those demons, little whispering shadows that creep up through an unprotected crack or two  in the veneer of my soul ...

In those moments I die all over again, when things grow dark..... and I begin to drown in the mire of the things that have been, that never were or could be .... I fight though... So hard... To rise to the surface, to breath , to survive.

You see, I took the high road.... I let go... Just not too sure of what or how much.... Did I save enough for me?.... Of me? What was I saving for?

So now most days I live.... I exist ,  each day the sun rises and my reality folds in on me.... The night comes and with it my breath,

another day gone...  Success... The nightmares have stayed safely locked away, the darkness an illusion in the moonlight...  I turn over in my bed and wait for another sunrise... Another day... to just be...

making your life fit.... another look at picking up the pieces that fit and throwing out those that dont

Life… is a struggle..

 From the moment you push your way out into this world to the moment you take your last breath…

So what is it about this life that keeps us going?... we all want to live…we all want to do things…be someone…achieve milestones… yet sometimes , somehow…things just don’t seem to go the way we want them to…how do we keep from letting it get to us.. what do you do when all else has failed…the feelings of sadness and frustration don’t go away…you’re mired in despair and there don’t seem to be any windows left any more...

You just take a deep breath…. If that doesn’t help you take another one… then you calmly (if possible) take stock of the situation that you’re in… sometimes…when you just take a little distance from yourself… life seems a little different from what you thought it was…

My mother said..looking at your life out of context often helps. I never understood it till I actually did it.  I was forced to take a cold objective look at what was going on with me, and when I did…I was surprised at the number of things that were now so obviously wrong or out of sync that I just could not see before…simply because it was all too close to me. So take a step back…take a deep breath and take a long hard look at what’s going on around you and with you. Remove all emotions that linger…attachments that hold you down…only then can you set yourself free.

Freedom of course is another extremely subjective term… what do we mean when we say we want to be free… do we want freedom of choice? Freedom to do as we will; to be free of repercussions …responsibility… or all of the above?

I’ve learnt it’s not exactly that…to me freedom means to not let fear hold you down…fear of reprisal….failure… not fitting in… and that only comes when you finally own who you are…when you are absolutely clear about what it is that you want to do…with yourself…your life… what your bottom line is…

So how do we define our bottom-line?....

Take a look at your life…the things you do…would like to do… the people in your life… and make a list of the deal breakers for them… a list of what you absolutely will not accept in your profession or standing as a professional…a list of what you will not accept in your personal life… how you want to be treated… behaviour, acts , opinions and your moral standing on things and issues… the kind of people you want in your life… a base denominator that you know represents the bare minimum you want for yourself… if that bottom-line goes out… then it’s time to walk away. If the base denominator or bottom-line is not being met at the very least in any situation in your life…it probably means that you’re in the wrong situation , place of work or relationship and all your work is being dedicated to an uncertain future. One that is probably not best for you.

Make that list and review it…be very sure of all that you have put down…once you’ve done that…go out and live that life… begin by being the person to yourself  that you want others to be to you... pick out the pieces that just dont fit and dust them out of your life..

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It’s about getting the right cycle of life kick-started… for example… I hate getting cut off or having people skip the traffic light when it’s my turn… so I quietly sit at the signal till it turns green…even if I have a horde of impatient irate drivers honking away behind me just because the road looks empty. This way not only do I end up shaming some others into waiting their turn but also get the satisfaction of knowing I did something that I thought and know to be right. It’s a small example I know…but its these little things that add up to the bigger picture…

Don’t like to be out of place in a social setting?…reach out to that lonely guest the next time you’re at a party… don’t like rude people?...think twice before you snap at house help or service staff anywhere… it’s as simple as that… slowly and surely every little aspect of your life will begin to adhere itself to the way you want to shape it…soon you’ll be able to wake up for that morning walk that you were just too tired for…you’ll manage that film you wanted to catch and you’ll meet that deadline that seemed unfair… it’s because…bit by bit…everything in your life… from little acts to how you view the world and how it looks back at you is changing….armed with the confidence of knowing who you are and what you are made of…move forward knowing YOU have taken control of things… now I’m not saying that unforeseen events or sudden emergencies can’t throw lives out of gear… they can and they will….but knowing that you have and will have a grip on things is what will help you get back up on that proverbial horse.

The problem is that we all lead lives in excess of what they’re meant to be… trying to pack in more than the daily quota so there’s always a shortage… of time…patience… peace…breathing space.

  Failures happen…hearts break…the world is a harsh place to be in sometime… There’s nothing wrong with grieving over a loss or being angry at something… by all means…cry your heart out…curse the cause of your pain or discomfort….and when you’re done venting… Just take a step back and breath… size up the broken misaligned pieces and start putting them back together…. One piece at a time…one day at a time…and watch your every being align itself into place…the place where you want it to be …the place that makes you whole…

paradigm shift

Monday, September 21, 2009

paradigm shift....i finally get it. life's many obscure choices sometimes bring you to a point of epiphany. there's just no escaping it then, the best thing you can do is to bow down and face up to some hard truths. truths you were chosing to pretend didnt exist. The funny thing about life is that it keeps bringing you back to the same point in your life again and f****** again... till you finally get it and are thus deemed capable of moving on to newer and better places. it sucks but its how the world works....cant really shift gears till you're truly up to speed, you'll just end up ruining the transmission otherwise.

logic and the heart........

Saturday, August 8, 2009 

Its funny how, the mind usually manages to filter through a web of emotions quite easily....yet the heart always clouds our judgement. 

Why is it that most humans...social civilised beings as we may be.....tend to forget how simplistic life could be if one approached matters of the heart logically? ......but then it wouldn't be any fun would it? 

If life were to only be a series of logical conclusions then there wouldn’t be much in it...humans as it is are an inherently romantic species; by which I mean the virtues of curiosity, angst anger, yearning, even humour for that matter. 

were we not capable of human "emotions" as we know them...we wouldn’t be much of a species to speak of...where would the arts lie?...who then, would've created the history as we know it today? 

If it wasn’t for emotion...there wouldn’t be a Hitler or Caesar or Cleopatra even.....true accompanying their hearts were some of the strongest minds of their times, a razor edge logical approach that led to fine strategising and victories. Yet, the driving force behind their intellects was their hearts....their will, their need and desire to possess that which they were seeking with their every being. 

so where does that bring us?....are we meant to find the superior of the two?...will there ever be a place where the heart and mind shall work as one?...who's to say which is the better?...while some say the heart makes us weak.....others argue that working with the mind alone can make us blind sighted, unable to notice the nuances of a situation. 

the dilemma continues and shall do so...personally I’d prefer it that way....they say the mind gives you the answers that we often don’t wish to face while the heart might make it easier to get around the truth....I am often content to reside in the denial my heart offers me at times....the mind however, knows no such mercy; yet sometimes it is better to rip the proverbial band aid off than to continue fussing over a festering wound. 

so how does one explain rationalisations?...it may be assumed that the heart is surely at play in the construction of a comfortable reality....yet wouldn’t it also be safe to assume that the mind too would be party to this process of construction in order to make it logically plausible? 

So is there really an answer to this question...or is it merely a voice of the heart that the mind shall continue to argue with? 

Ponder......while my heart makes my mind wander..... 

Thought Percussion

Tuesday, July 28, 2009 at 6:47pm

Its strange...you sit...ponder...wonder...emptying your mind of all its trash..and yet when you least expect it...they come rushing back in. beating at you, playing out like a bad symphony. Whoever said "free you mind...and the rest will follow" obviously didnt take a tour of neha's lala land...

free your mind the rest will follow alright...right back into your head like a homing pigeon. It seems the harder you try to unthink something...the more it plays on your mind. Bee in your bonnet anyone?

soon a rhythm sets in...forgotten tasks beat away at you like a staccato while unresolved issues cry out in crescendo...random notes of flickerring thoughts play out like the abandoned notes on a half finished song....

i sit in my castle looking down at the remains of my distracted soul...smirking at the obvious joke hiding behind my grim take on the day. thruth be told its not a bad day at all...heck its been fun... its just self indulgent sulking to pretend the world is a sorry place...its not...it only looks that way because we choose to.

try hard enough and we'll find hope and salvation in just about every little thing...even the rusty skyscraper the neighbourhood crow is trying to build in my window box grill....its a symbol to me...of life moving on relentless n merciless....the trick is to hitch a ride on the fast train to happiness

but the tickets can only be bought on the station of thought free action...free you mind...the rest will follow...well someone will...its human nature.

Moment.... a work in progress...

and she walked in silence

her heart breaking into a million pieces, her ragged soul hanging in the wind

what had gone wrong? she wondered

where did i lose my grip?

her wide tear rimmed eyes stared vacantly into the wind

her feet taking her down an unknown path

people dodged past her... finally something came searing into her consciousness....a blinding light...

tyres screeched...horns blared....a car swerved around her....waking her from her reverie...

she blinked

reality looked back at her from every corner... and she cried

she cried till she doubled over with pain in the middle of that busy street...

she cried while the world walked past her...

and he watched.. he watched

 her broken soul writhe in pain...

he watched her sobs soak the wind

he watched her rock in desperate hopes to calm herself..

he watched as pieces of her very being scattered into the breeze..

he watched as concerned citizens made to soothe her

he watched as her anguish drove them away..

he watched as she tired slowly

he watched as she slept by the street side

she woke

in a grassy patch in a hidden garden

the sun was beginning to kiss the buds on the far edge

should she be afraid?

and then she remembered

she whimpered, one shallow breath escaped her quivering mouth

she sighed and lay back down

she stared up at the sky oblivious

she felt the grass beneath her fingers

she felt the dew on her clothes

she felt nothing...

nothing...

wasnt it too soon for nothing?

how long had it been?

it felt like a moment ago...

she lay there some more

lesson 1

rule one in lessons about life...

when in doubt...never set out to do any work....you'll just end up erasing everything!!!

with that i concede defeat and end my thoughts
till we meet again.

starting out

hey!!

so after a lot of hemming and hawing ive finally done it....gone and created my blog...its a strange feeling...crossing this final frontier of communication so to speak.
im really excited and happy to be able to share my thoughts and experiences with those who choose to be a part of it.
for those who know me already know what to expect heh! and those who dont..well this is just as good a way as any to GET to know me.

so this is it...the first of many..oh and yes i shall import my e-book soon enough..."the seedy thriller chronicles"...
till then
cheers